Until recently, for a child who had to be separated from his/her biological
family there was no other source of protection than institutionalization,
with all the psychological and emotional deficits it implied. Precisely
in order to mitigate these deficits, the figure of the foster family appeared
in an attempt to base the psycho-emotional development of these children
on the personal bounds which define family cohesion. But to talk about
fostering is to talk about temporality, contact and return to the biological
family, training and selection of the foster family... We will talk about
it in the following article and in the various articles elaborated by different
professionals specialized in this complex subject.
Although the number of foster families has gradually increased in recent
years, still much greater is the number of children who remain in children's
homes compared with the number of children who have the opportunity of
growing up in a family environment. The latter no doubt repairs two important
deficits: one being that of the child's biological family, unable, due
to various problems, to offer the necessary care to their children, and
the other concerning the very same institutionalization (little space for
privacy, for the individual as such, and for the emotional commitment and
exclusivity). This does not mean that all children who are in children's
homes should go to foster families. These two patterns of children's protection
have to coexist necessarily since, while for one specific child the best
thing may be is his/her integration in a family unit, for another the best
thing may be to remain in a small children's home; it always depends on
the child's character, on his/her specific situation, on the relationship
he/she keeps with his/her biological family, etc. However, it is obvious
that many of the children who remain in children's homes could go to live
with foster families and that it would be much more positive for their
development at all levels. Indeed, the only requirement is that the number
of families prepared to foster one of these little children for whom life
has not been at all easy should increase substantially.