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EXTRACTS of Infancia y adopción , number 3, january-june 1998
Foster families, something more than solidarity
Until recently, for a child who had to
be separated from his/her biological family there was no other source of
protection than institutionalization, with all the psychological and emotional
deficits it implied. Precisely in order to mitigate these deficits, the
figure of the foster family appeared in an attempt to base the psycho-emotional
development of these children on the personal bounds which define family
cohesion. But to talk about fostering is to talk about temporality, contact
and return to the biological family, training and selection of the foster
family... We will talk about it in the following article and in the various
articles elaborated by different professionals specialized in this complex
subject.
Although the number of foster families
has gradually increased in recent years, still much greater is the number
of children who remain in children's homes compared with the number of
children who have the opportunity of growing up in a family environment.
The latter no doubt repairs two important deficits: one being that of the
child's biological family, unable, due to various problems, to offer the
necessary care to their children, and the other concerning the very same
institutionalization (little space for privacy, for the individual as such,
and for the emotional commitment and exclusivity). This does not mean that
all children who are in children's homes should go to foster families.
These two patterns of children's protection have to coexist necessarily
since, while for one specific child the best thing may be is his/her integration
in a family unit, for another the best thing may be to remain in a small
children's home; it always depends on the child's character, on his/her
specific situation, on the relationship he/she keeps with his/her biological
family, etc. However, it is obvious that many of the children who remain
in children's homes could go to live with foster families and that it would
be much more positive for their development at all levels. Indeed, the
only requirement is that the number of families prepared to foster one
of these little children for whom life has not been at all easy should
increase substantially.
Alegría Borrás, the legal
side of adoption
Alegría Borrás, a teacher,
represented our country at the the Hague Conference on International Adoption.
As a result of this Conference, in May 1993 the so-called The Hague Agreement
on International Adoption appeared in a large number of countries, Spain
being one of them. In this interview, Alegría Borrás, one
of the highest authorities in our country on private international law,
tells us about these changes, as well as on some gaps that still remain
in the present Spanish legislation on adoption. These are some of her statements:
"Simple adoption is problematic, specially
when the child moves to another country, when here we do not have a concrete
legal mechanism for transformation. People are faced with many problems;
it is understood that this kind of adoption is equivalent to a preadoptive
fostering or that it is only a reason for excluding the proposal of adoption
by the public authority... that is to say, a series of matters that only
present problems... I have always said that it would be positive to have
a mechanism to articulate these formulae. For instance, in relation to
the very same Hague Agreement, there is the subject concerning the fact
that adoptions, although simple, if they establish some specific bounds
even when there is no absolute break with the family of origin, then, there
should be an automatic acknowledgement of them. Indeed, we cannot carry
out an automatic acknowledgement of a simple adoption because we do not
have this mechanism and we also do not have a mechanism for transformation.
Our legislation should have this legal mechanism for transformation; this
would make things much easier."
"With the system of the The Hague Agreement,
the situation is much easier since with it, if the previous procedure has
not been carried out, the mechanisms for acknowledgement do not work. For
this reason, what cannot happen in the case of a child coming from a state
belonging to the The Hague Agreement is that the child arrives here without
having completed the previous formalities. With it I mean, and I think
that this is very important because it is still not working well enough,
that between states participating in The Hague Agreement, the previous
suitability rapport is not a requirement that can be easily rectified,
because it is a part of the previous procedure. This means that this child
cannot be documented, that this child cannot leave his/her country, that
he/she cannot come to Spain as the requirements of the Agreement have not
been complied with, this adoption is not acknowledged and cannot be rectified.
The subsequent suitability rapport and, therefore, the possibility of coming
here, as well as all the problems that this is causing can in effect only
happen when the Agreement is not applied."
WORKSHOP ON INTERNATIONAL ADOPTION
In answer to the increasing demand and
sensitizing of the citizens concerning international adoption, last November
the General Direction of Social Action, the Minor and the Family of the
Labour and Social Affairs Ministry organized November last the first Workshop
on International Adoption on a state level, addressed to technicians and
professionals. During the workshop around 300 people registered and more
than 30 speakers evaluated the various and complex aspects which make up
the present situation of adoption.
The training and the selection of adopting
parents, the national and international legislative framework, the view
of the countries of origin, the Collaborating Agencies for International
Adoption (Entitades Colaboradoras de Adopci-n Internacional, ECAI), the
collected experiences in various European countries, the role of the consulates,
the experience of adopting parents and adopted children... Each and every
one of the different aspects related to adoption were dealt with on the
5, 6 and 7 of November last in Madrid during a workshop that was intense
and interesting. The European countries, with a tradition of more than
20 years in international adoption, were surprised by the increasing number
of Collaborating Agencies for International Adoption that are being authorized
in our country. Various foreign speakers openly expressed their worries
as regards this subject, warning the Spanish administration about the serious
problems that could derive form it. Some months after the Workshop, and
while new agencies are being authorized, Mar'a Teresa Mog'n, General Director
of Social Action, the Minor and the Family, affirms in some declarations
to our magazine:
"It is true that the increase of these agencies has
been fast, that is to say, that in a very short period of time many have
appeared. The concentration of various ECAI in some countries is also true,
in Latin America as well as in Eastern Europe. For this reason, we consider
that it is necessary to keep on working in conjunction with the Public
Administration and the ECAI to introduce elements for a future realignment
of the situation.".
'THE CHILD WHO HAS LIVED IN INSTITUTIONS. EFFECTS ON HIS DEVELOPMENT"
Conference given by Carmen Amorós, clinical psychologist.
Among the various activities carried out
in Barcelona by ADDIA during 1997 there was the conference on the various
aspects related to the institutionalization of children. Carmen Amorós
A., clinical psychologist with experience in the field, was the person
responsible for establishing the required dialogue with the parents participating
in the conference and orientating them in relation to how institutionalization
in early childhood may have an effect on the child's development.
>From the beginning of the Conference,
Carmen Amorós made it clear that the experience of institutionalization
depends on the functioning of each specific institution, on the people
of reference the child may have had in this institution and on the quality
of the relationship that he/she may have established with these persons,
in addition to the specific features of each child and the length of time
this lack of permanence implied in living in an institution may have lasted.
To the question of whether there are behaviors
that may be generalized to all institutionalized children, Carmen Amorós
answered "no", for there are not only very different working patterns
in the many institutions, but also because each child is different and
has his/her own capacity to tolerate frustrations and to recover from difficult
experiences and as is his/her own capacity to forgive and to begin a relationship.
Thus, each child metabolizes, elaborates, in a distinct way, life experiences.
What is observed is a clear tendency in the institutionalized children
to ask for a family.
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